The following is an actual letter from a young woman who was engaging in self-harm.
I want to thank you for all you have done for me. I remember learning of the Your Life Your Voice website when I was around eighteen, and I used it often between the ages of eighteen and twenty.
I have struggled with self-harm for about four and a half years. I remember at my lowest points I was self-harming badly multiple times a day, and I’ve had suicide attempts.
I started using the website for the online chats. I would speak with someone through chat who would listen to me and help me come up with some coping mechanisms I could try for the night.
I remember one chat in particular where I was self-harming while I was chatting and I knew I shouldn’t, so I asked if they could call me on the phone. I gave them my number and they talked with me on the phone while I cried. They calmed me down and reassured me that what I was going through was a lot.
They helped me come up with a few things I could try. At the time, coping mechanisms to me were small things I could try to help me not self-harm for five, ten, thirty minutes or so, but those minutes I spent doing something else were crucial in my beginning steps towards recovery.
I wish I remembered the name of the person I spoke with on the phone, but it made a difference that night. I felt cared for and I felt like someone wanted to help me.
I mainly used the chats but after the experience on the phone, I realized that because of my own struggle the phone was probably the best and safest option for me because when I was on the phone I couldn’t focus on self-harming at the same time.
Currently, I am about three to four months free from self-harm. I am graduating next month with a bachelor’s of social work and am continuing on in an advanced standing yearlong masters of social work with a minor in drug and alcohol counseling. I am currently finishing up my internship at the public defender office where I assist clients charged with crimes.
I couldn’t have done all this without the help of many people, and this includes Your Life Your Voice and the Boys Town National Hotline. I know how much these websites have helped me, and I know they have helped countless of other people in whatever they are going through.
Thank you for all you have done for me and continue to do for so many!
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