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Raising a Nonjudgmental Child

September 21st, 2016

Children are born without bias. As infants, they don’t care about race, gender, religion (or lack thereof), sexual orientation or cultural identity. As they grow, any prejudice they exhibit regarding others is the result of learning via observation. That means if you wish to raise a nonjudgmental child, you must first take a look in the mirror as well as understand that the key to building relationships and raising a nonjudgmental child is through the development of trust and communication.

As a parent, you are your child’s first teacher, which is why it is crucial that you are a role model as your infant matures into a walking, talking toddler. These first three or four years of life are crucial to forming your child’s personality — including his or her views on the differences we humans naturally exhibit.

Your young child is more likely to be open and welcoming to others if you connect and associate with people who are different from you. This means exposing your child to diversity-rich environments and cultivating friendships with children of many different backgrounds.

Throughout your son or daughter’s childhood — and especially during those formative years — it is important to talk honestly and openly about the many wonderful differences that make everyone unique. Discussing these differences can make the unfamiliar less scary and threatening, which can help reduce prejudice.

Practicing empathy and compassion through role-playing is one way to help ensure that your child is open and welcoming to others. Start by having your child express concern for someone (perhaps you) if they’ve been injured or had some other misfortune befall them. This is also a good opportunity to reinforce the Golden Rule: Treat others as you want them to treat you.

You should also look for teachable moments along the way. If you see someone who’s being mistreated because of their differences, explain to your child why this is wrong. If your child says something derogatory about another child because he or she has a physical impairment, explain what that impairment is and that he or she is not “weird” or “dumb” but simply “different,” and that different is okay.

Lastly, you should reward good behavior. Try to “catch your child being good,” and when he or she exhibits extraordinary tolerance or genuine concern for another, offer verbal praise, a hug or another positive gesture.

Though babies are born without bias, nonjudgmental adults are raised, not born. As a parent, it’s up to you to ensure that your child becomes one.

To read more, check out Julia Cook’s latest book, The Judgmental Flower.

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  • March 24th, 2015

    Teachable moments can come from a wide variety of sources, including other parents. From time to time parents write blogs for us that we think you will find interesting, useful, ...

  • March 23rd, 2015

    Teachable moments can come from a wide variety of sources, including other parents. From time to time parents write blogs for us that we think you will find interesting, useful, ...

  • March 19th, 2015

    Teachable moments can come from a wide variety of sources, including other parents. From time to time parents write blogs for us that we think you will find interesting, useful, ...

  • March 17th, 2015

    We try to have dinner together as a family every night in our Boys Town Family Home. Even on days when everyone “fends” for themselves or we do leftovers, we ...

  • March 13th, 2015

    This post first appeared on Momaha.com. Photo courtesy of Momaha.com. Families aren’t having family dinner as much as they were maybe 20 years ago. It was an automatic in my house that you ...

  • March 10th, 2015

    This post is an update to the story we first brought to you about Karen and her son Nick.  Something to Brighten Your Day Today, as I sit here writing, we are ...

  • March 3rd, 2015

    Younger children love fairy tales about beautiful princesses and handsome princes. Through storybooks and movies, they can imagine themselves as the hero or heroine who overcomes adversity, shows kindness toward ...

  • March 1st, 2015

    March is Self-Harm Awareness Month. Approximately one in eight people engages in some form of self-harm behavior, and the problem currently is more widespread than it has been for decades. Fortunately, ...

  • February 24th, 2015

    I’m very much an advocate of praising kids, including teenagers, in a positive-negative ratio of at least four positives to every one negative. For some, this may sound a bit ...

  • February 18th, 2015

    Teachable moments can come from a wide variety of sources, including other parents. From time to time parents write blogs for us that we think you will find interesting, useful, ...

  • February 12th, 2015

    Photo courtesy of Andrew Dickinson for The New York Times. Here at Boys Town, we have always prided ourselves on preparing kids for a successful life after Boys Town. As some of ...

  • February 11th, 2015

    This post first appeared on Momaha.com. Photo courtesy of Momaha.com. Many parents struggle with getting their little ones to sit at the table and eat the nutritious food on their plate. ...

  • February 11th, 2015

    A woman stopped by my office earlier this week. She had just come from another meeting with the school principal about her child and her shoulders sagged under the burden ...

  • February 3rd, 2015

    When Your Teen Goes Out, Demand a Plan I grew up before the time of cell phones, email and instant communication. So if I wanted to ask a girl out, I ...

  • January 28th, 2015

    I will admit I was one of those parents who overloaded my children with activities. And with three kids… we were very busy. Yet, about a year ago, I had ...

  • January 28th, 2015

    We wanted to know… what if there were no Boys Town? We asked some of the children and families that we heal each day. Here are a few of their ...

  • January 21st, 2015

    Teachable moments can come from a wide variety of sources, including other parents. From time to time parents write blogs for us that we think you will find interesting, useful, ...

  • January 13th, 2015

    This holiday season our family took their first big vacation! With a four- and six-year-old I was incredibly nervous about, not one, but two fairly lengthy plane rides, so I ...

  • January 10th, 2015

    Boys Town does a LOT. We have a vast set of services, and it’s a challenge for us to tell our story, because there is so much that we cover. ...

  • January 8th, 2015

    This post first appeared on Momaha.com. After a long Christmas break, high schoolers are heading back to the classroom. Second semester is an opportunity to make resolutions and start fresh. There ...

  • January 5th, 2015

    Photo courtesty of Washington Post.  Thomas McRae Jr. had a rough start in life. By the time he was 16, he had lived in 22 different foster homes. He never understood what ...

  • January 1st, 2015

    This post first appeared on Momaha.com. Many people have started their list of resolutions for the new year. This year I challenge you to decide on a parenting resolution for 2015. Whether you ...

  • December 31st, 2014

    Protecting the children in our care is priority number one. For any organization that works with children, safety is best ensured when everyone, including employees, volunteers and others who are involved ...

  • December 30th, 2014

    This post first appeared on Momaha.com. Photo courtesy of Momaha.com. With winters cold arrival and daylights quick retreat, our children are starting to shift the focus of their fun from playgrounds, ...

  • December 28th, 2014

    My heart breaks when I hear what some of the children and families we serve went through before coming to Boys Town. As a child, Edward suffered abuse for 12 years ...

  • December 24th, 2014

    Teachable moments can come from a wide variety of sources, including other parents. From time to time parents write blogs for us that we think you will find interesting, useful, ...

  • December 20th, 2014

    Between the ages of 16 and 19, adolescents have achieved full physical maturity. In sharp contrast to early adolescence, when many teenagers are socially awkward and embarrassed by their bodies, ...

  • December 17th, 2014

    This post first appeared on Momaha.com. Photo from Momaha.com.  It can be a challenge to get your kids to appreciate the things they have when they are eager for Christmas to arrive ...

  • December 10th, 2014

    Teachable moments can come from a wide variety of sources, including other parents. From time to time parents write blogs for us that we think you will find interesting, useful, ...

  • December 2nd, 2014

    Last year, we introduced you to Sommer, a bright young woman whose parents would leave her alone for days on end. Many of you wanted to know how she was ...

  • November 26th, 2014

    Last year Boys Town put out some tips for Holiday fun that are cheap and easy and help kids keep their focus away from the presents and commercialization of Christmas ...

  • November 10th, 2014

    I recently came across an article from the Chicago Tribune about how the government is removing severely obese children from their homes. These removals aren’t happening because these children are being ...

  • October 29th, 2014

    This post first appeared on Momaha.com. It can be hard to admit that your child is bullying others. But when you recognize this type of behavior in your child, it’s important to ...

  • October 22nd, 2014

    This post first appeared on Momaha.com. Kids don’t always share what is going on in their life. When they do talk, you want to help find solutions. Unfortunately when it comes ...

  • October 15th, 2014

    Last Monday, I dropped off my almost 2-year-old at the child care center of my gym for the first time. I was afraid she would cry, throw a fit, or ...

  • October 7th, 2014

    Bullying is every parent’s worst nightmare. As parents, it is natural for us to want to protect our babies from the outside world. You don’t want their feelings to get ...

  • October 7th, 2014

    Photo from Landfill Harmonic YouTube. I saw a video the other day that reminded me just how beautiful the human spirit is. The video, Landfill Harmonic, is about people who live in ...

  • September 25th, 2014

    As the host of several popular home improvement reality shows, Josh Temple is a familiar face on television these days. But did you know that in addition to his day ...

  • September 21st, 2014

    “He ain’t heavy, Father… he’s m’ brother.” That iconic phrase has symbolized the spirit of Boys Town for decades. But many people don’t know how it originated. Back in 1918, a boy ...

  • September 19th, 2014

    Spanking as a form of discipline continues to be a hot topic of debate, both among parents and in the public forum. Is it right? Is it wrong? Does it ...

  • September 13th, 2014

    I love working at Boys Town. Every time I think I can’t be more in awe of the services provided by Boys Town and the impact upon the children and families ...

  • September 11th, 2014

    When I was 9 years old, my father took me to sign-up for Little League baseball. A few days after sign-ups, I received a call from the coach who told ...

  • September 4th, 2014

    The school year (or, as many parents know it, “The Most Wonderful Time of the Year”) is here. For high school kids, that means Homecoming is just around the corner. ...

  • August 30th, 2014

    Father Edward Flanagan inspires me every day. The founder of Boys Town may have passed away more than 60 years ago, but his dedication to children and his leadership in changing ...

  • August 18th, 2014

    Many parents do the “back-to-school” cheer once the summer is over, their youngsters are on their way back to the classroom and family life is back on schedule. But for parents ...

  • August 13th, 2014

    Dinnertime is one of my favorite times at home. I grew up in a house where we always had dinner as a family and that tradition has carried in to ...

  • July 30th, 2014

    I admit I am slightly addicted to Facebook. I find myself in any 30-second break (at a red light, waiting in line at the grocery store, during TV commercials) I ...

  • July 16th, 2014

    A woman stopped by my office earlier this week. She had just come from another meeting with the school principal about her child and her shoulders sagged under the burden ...

  • July 9th, 2014

    I struggle with behavior and discipline with my children, as I’m sure most parents do. I read a lot about correcting misbehavior and the best ways to deal with discipline ...

  • July 2nd, 2014

    Recently I told my oldest child to do something and they respond with, “or what?” Eek! That is a bad thing to hear as a parent. That is when I ...

  • June 11th, 2014

    As a parent, we play so many different roles in the home that getting our kids to listen and follow instructions might not always take the forefront in our list ...

  • June 4th, 2014

    Boys Town parenting puts a great deal of focus on positive consequences vs. negative consequences. The idea is if you catch them being good and recognize this, you will head ...

  • January 25th, 2012

    As fans prepare for Super Bowl XLVI, I’m sure there are more than a few who are sad that Tim Tebow and his Denver Broncos didn’t make it to the ...